How do you deal with procastination/fear of failure?
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I'm starting to see that there is something to be gained by refusing to fear failure.
My son has been doing school exams this week. He gets anxious. I told him to aim for 0%, anything else is a bonus.
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@DomDom wow, i really like that approach. i think it's more helpful than putting unnecessary pressure on a kid to do really well.
that reminds me of something Elon Musk said in an interview, about how you should just accept failure as an option, that way you're more prepared for it, and you're not worried about failing bc well... you've already accepted it. basically as you said "anything else is a bonus".
i was actually working on my game after i made this post, and i'm trying to go into it with more of a "i'm just gonna have fun and see what comes of this" mindset rather than a "omg it has to work, i'll be really upset if it doesn't" mindset. and that's helping me a lot :)
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@moonflower fact of the matter is as a game developer you're probably going to hit this wall during every single project. Spelunky developer Derek Yu describes it as a wasteland. I've heard it compared to the runners wall and to a feeling of drowning and honestly they're all correct. At a certain point you look at what you're working on, how far you've come and how far you need to go and it can feel overwhelming. Its important to power on, and not to give up. Personally what you did helps me, just write down how you're feeling somehwere, whether it's public or not.
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@Retrocade_media but you have to drown before you can swim, (at least according to James)
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@Retrocade_media drowning, wall, wasteland, they all sound pretty accurate lol >.< i used to hit this 'wall' all the time with art (that infamous art block) so it feels strange having to re-learn how to deal with it all over again now that i'm doing something so new and different. writing is super helpful to me, so you're right, i'll definitely have to just write it all out in my journal whenever the wall starts creeping up, and power on. thank you
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@DomDom i've drowned twice before but still can't swim LOL
but yeah i totally agree (metaphorically) haha
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@moonflower Me too!
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@pianofire wait you can't swim either ? ayy shallow water gang haha 😂
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@moonflower Afraid not and I grew up next to the sea!
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@pianofire wow, that sounds nice tho. being near water must be peaceful
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@moonflower It was a seaside holiday town. It was very busy in the summer and very quiet in the winter
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@moonflower That proves you have nothing to fear.
@pianofire Me too re. seaside town. I think SteveZX is another. Do you think the video arcades might have had an undue influence? -
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@DomDom wow, complete with mountains in the background and everything. its beautiful. what country is this if u don't mind me asking?
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@DomDom Wow,that is beautiful! I don't think that the Bristol channel can compete with that.
Yes arcades were very much why I became a programmer. Williams Defender was (and still is) my favourite game
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@DomDom u are lucky! a cousin of mine lives there as well. the scenery looks incredible
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@DomDom just checked the covid stats for norway and... wow yeah you seriously did.
At the very least, I'm glad my parents chose Canada over the US when they immigrated
